Mississippi has one holiday honoring both Martin Luther King’s birthday, January 15, 1929, and Confederate General Robert E. Lee, born on January 19, 1807. My initial reaction to this was to ask if the Old South will ever let go of its glorification of its past?
What an insult to African Americans to place a 19th century Confederate general on par with a 20th century crusader for freedom and peace.
And yet, Robert E. Lee as an individual was certainly a principled and admirable man, and a brilliant military leader. Personally, he was opposed to civil war, he believed that slavery was a “moral and institutional evil,” and thought secession would be a disaster. As a Virginian, he felt he had a duty to defend his state and the principle of state’s rights. As my friend Charlie Glendinning has pointed out:
When Robert E. Lee surrendered he asked all of his followers (concerning the Confederate flag) to “Furl this flag. Stow it away. Put it in your attics.” He refused to be buried in his Confederate uniform. His family refused to allow anyone dressed in the confederate uniform to attend his funeral. He even requested he not be buried in his uniform. “His Confederate uniform would have seemed ‘treason’ perhaps!” Lee’s daughter wrote.
When he was elected president of Washington College (now Washington and Lee) he said, “I think it wiser moreover not to keep open the sores of war, but to follow the examples of those nations who endeavoured to obliterate the marks of civil strife and to commit to oblivion the feelings it engendered.”
I can understand the desire of Southern whites to say, “hey, we have things to be proud of in our history, not simply ashamed.” When I was the age of my seven year old, growing up in the South, I frequently heard that Robert E. Lee was a saint, the pure image of white manhood, and Martin Luther King was a demon, a “rabble-rouser.” I came to mock and disdain Lee as highly over-rated, a dutiful, boring stuffed shirt full of “shoulds” with little joy in his life. Certainly not a hero for an “enlightened” young man growing up in the 1960s and 1970s.
The photo perhaps illustrates a bit of this attitude — a Southerner in repose like Lee, falling asleep next to his tomb. And yet, in retrospect, if one can detach oneself from the competition between honoring either King OR Lee, there is much to admire in both men.
- Robert E. Lee Biography
- Robert E. Lee Quotes
- Additional biography, with more pictures and links.
- Lee’s Views On Slavery
- Stratford Hall, Birthplace of Robert E. Lee
- Arlington House, Lee’s home, sits presiding over Washington
- Lee Chapel where Lee is buried, on the campus of Washington and Lee University in Lexington, VA, where he served as President after the civil war.
- “We failed, but in the good providence of God apparent failure often proves a blessing.”
- “We have fought this fight as long, and as well as we know how. We have been defeated. For us as a Christian people, there is now but one course to pursue. We must accept the situation.”
- “What a cruel thing is war: to separate and destroy families and friends, and mar the purest joys and happiness God has granted us in this world; to fill our hearts with hatred instead of love for our neighbors, and to devastate the fair face of this beautiful world.”